The Army has put a kink in our plans like only the Army can.  Brian & I were initially very hurt by the news. I am so proud of Brian for keeping a positive outlook despite our impending separation. He started his new job like a champ today, and seems excited to proceed on this new journey.  Obviously, not excited to leave us, but if he has to go he's going with a good attitude. I've wanted to be angry, and I've been anxious.  Brian has kept me calm & eased my anxiety like only he can.  From the beginning of our relationship, Brian has been able to get me out of my anxiety funk. So, to my one & only, I'm proud of you!